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Wednesday, November 19 2014

One of the most frustrating statistics on the fathering front is that less than one in ten families attending church weekly have any spiritual discussion in the home between Sundays. This lack of intentionality gives the world more influence than we realize and the result rests square on the shoulders of dads!

When my kids were learning to drive, I was very intentional in helping them to understand the rules of the road. I took them out to the country and downtown Houston in all kinds of weather to teach them how to handle a vehicle under various road conditions. And I equipped them to stay alert because other drivers will disregard the rules of the road and do the unexpected – there is no shortage of such educational opportunities while driving around Houston. We talked often about leaving enough room to have a way out of a bad situation. The intentional effort paid off in that both kids are good drivers.

When kids begin their faith journey, it is up to us dads to lead by example in our personal relationship with Jesus the Christ and help our kids understand the word of God as the absolute truth for life in this world. In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the Beginning. … The word became flesh and made His dwelling among us – John 1:1-2, 14.
We need to teach them how to handle themselves in different situations, specifically to always honor the temple, the body they have been blessed with and glorify God with the unique gifts they have been given. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, Who is in you, Whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body – 1Corinthians 6:18-20.

We must also equip them well to stay alert to lies that percolate in the world and be disciplined in the choices they make. Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives tales; rather, train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come – 1Timothy 4:7-8. When kids do get caught in a situation that is not good, they must know Dad is the one to call as their way out. The intentional effort on the spiritual front will pay off in this life and beyond.

Tips to Be Intentional:

  1. Lead spiritually by example – attend church, worship, study, walk your faith;
  2. Read the scripture passage the pastor used for his sermon Sunday and discuss it at the dinner table;
  3. Schedule 30 minutes of family devotion time & prayer time once a week;
  4. Pray for your wife and kids by name every day.

Prayer guide: Lord, I confess that I have been passive as the spiritual leader in the family and have granted the world more access to my home than I have You. Forgive me and help me be more intentional to turn from the noise of the world and tune in to You. I pray that my family will feel Your presence, even Your pleasure as we renew our minds in Your Word.  Amen.

A faithful father is intentional in his efforts to lead spiritually by example.

Posted by: Wertz AT 10:51 pm   |  Permalink   |  3 Comments  |  Email
Just read this message to my bride (to be). Thank you for this word. Praying for our children by name has been an epic milestone in my life. Blessings brother!
Posted by Scott Wesley on 11/20/2014 - 08:10 PM
Good one! Thanks a lot!
Posted by Jay on 11/20/2014 - 08:38 PM
Great one!
Posted by Bryan on 11/21/2014 - 10:28 AM

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