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Be All In Uncategorized

Be All In

I was all in with tennis as a kid. I ate, drank and slept tennis, determined to be the next Rod Laver. I would walk to the city courts and play all day, every day in the summer. If there wasn’t anyone there to hit…
Rick Wertz
July 10, 2014
Be Praying Uncategorized

Be Praying

On the anniversary of our great nation I was struck by how little I heard about prayer. In “One Nation Under God”, James P. Moore documents the significance of prayer throughout our history and specific prayer warriors such as George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, Woodrow Wilson,…
Rick Wertz
July 9, 2014
Be American Uncategorized

Be American

I got another one of those political calls the other night asking if I was a Republican or Democrat. I said, “I am an American.” She hung up on me. I had wanted to tell the caller about my new grassroots movement called the Unhyphenated…
Rick Wertz
July 2, 2014
Be the Solution Uncategorized

Be the Solution

I like to fix things. A recent project involved a section of concrete sidewalk in front of our house. Some settling made the bicycle ride to school for the neighborhood kids treacherous. So I got my shovel, some 2X4’s and QuickCrete and leveled it up…
Rick Wertz
June 25, 2014
Love, Let it Flow Uncategorized

Love, Let it Flow

A young man announced to his dad that he and his girlfriend were going to move in together. He knew his dad’s position on marriage and sexual purity, it was a line in the sand. The dad refused to embrace this sinful lifestyle but he…
Rick Wertz
May 21, 2014
Anger, Let it Go Uncategorized

Anger, Let it Go

Being angry at the right person about the right thing at the right time in the right way and having the right effect is not an easy thing to do. Jesus did it well in the temple but I have yet to be able to…
Rick Wertz
May 14, 2014
Be Free Uncategorized

Be Free

Are you free? We are a nation founded on certain freedoms called the Bill of Rights, the first 10 Amendments to our United States Constitution. The first amendment addresses the freedom of religion and of speech. These are tied together because we typically speak as…
Rick Wertz
May 7, 2014
Connecting with Teenagers Uncategorized

Connecting with Teenagers

It helps to be able to text, even if you don’t use your thumbs. Being on Facebook is important if your kids are – it is okay to mandate being ‘friended’. Technological connectivity is important but don’t forget physical presence, emotional engagement and spiritual leadership.…
Rick Wertz
April 30, 2014
Take Up the Shield Uncategorized

Take Up the Shield

Captain America takes up his shield often as his primary weapon, a concave disk 2.5 feet in diameter, weighing 12 pounds. It is reportedly made of a unique Vibranium-metal alloy that has never been duplicated. It is virtually indestructible and is as much an offensive…
Rick Wertz
April 23, 2014
Be Fit and Ready Uncategorized

Be Fit and Ready

With the CrossFit regimens, marathons, triathlons, Iron Man competitions and even the Tough Mudder, physical fitness is seeing new levels of popularity. The right shoes, the passion to compete and a disciplined training program are keys to being physically fit and ready for battle. Put…
Rick Wertz
April 16, 2014
Put the Helmet On Uncategorized

Put the Helmet On

Brad Stine is a Christian comedian with a routine called, “Put a helmet on!” In it he belittles the generation that has grown up never riding a bicycle without a helmet on. His sarcasm includes the amazement around how the older generation has survived – ones that…
Rick Wertz
April 9, 2014
Be in Prayer II Uncategorized

Be in Prayer II

James P. Moore, Jr. provides a stirring chronicle of the spiritual life of our nation and its rich history of prayer in his book, “One Nation Under God”. In an engaging read, he takes us from the devoutly religious Christopher Columbus to George Washington to Abraham…
Rick Wertz
March 26, 2014
Be in Prayer Uncategorized

Be in Prayer

Pray early and often for your children, individually by name. I guarantee the reason I am here sharing these insights with you is that my mother prayed for me every day from when I was in her arms to when she went into the Lord’s…
Rick Wertz
March 19, 2014
Be Different Uncategorized

Be Different

"Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify…
Rick Wertz
March 12, 2014
Be Cyber Savvy Uncategorized

Be Cyber Savvy

​What’s a cyber? If that is your first question, I hear you! And that is at the core of the issue – kids today are typically well ahead of us dads and moms in the use of technology. To the extent that when we attempt…
Rick Wertz
March 5, 2014
Be Transformed Uncategorized

Be Transformed

In his book “Choose the Life”, Bill Hull puts forth a challenge for Christ-likeness in this world. The call is to believe what Christ believed, live as Jesus lived, love as Jesus loved, serve as Jesus served and lead as Jesus led. It is a call for transformation! This is…
Rick Wertz
February 26, 2014
Be the Church Uncategorized

Be the Church

In his book “Deep & Wide – Creating Churches Unchurched People Love to Attend”, Andy Stanley speaks of the five pillars on which he and his team built a church. The pillars are what he calls the five faith catalysts that all on the Christian walk…
Rick Wertz
February 19, 2014
New Year Resolution Uncategorized

New Year Resolution

The New Year offers a unique opportunity to start anew in an area of your life that may have suffered some neglect over the past year. That’s what resolutions are about. Yet, the lifespan of most New Year resolutions is measured in days! This year…
Rick Wertz
January 1, 2014
Reason for the Season Uncategorized

Reason for the Season

Are you like me, still wondering what in the world happened to September and October? In fact the world happened! The busy-ness of the world distracted me as the months zipped right by. Now I am in danger of being distracted from the REASON for the season.   The…
Rick Wertz
December 18, 2013