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Losing Your Marbles Uncategorized

Losing Your Marbles

Dad moved his family five times in her first nine years of life. His daughter had attended four different schools by the time she entered the fourth grade and he was still traveling about 75% of the time. He had not made one parent-teacher conference,…
Rick Wertz
April 22, 2015
Learn to Love Uncategorized

Learn to Love

It was quite a wedding – a beautiful bride and nervous groom. I wondered if they really understood the love they were committing to “until death do they part”. In his book, “The Five Love Languages” Gary Chapman says the “tingly” love phase in marriage…
Rick Wertz
April 15, 2015
Be Pure Uncategorized

Be Pure

Mountain stream, pure bottled water is the advertisement. What are the benefits? In areas where the water supply has been contaminated, bottled water can certainly be a life source. And for emergency preparedness, a supply of bottled water serves a very practical purpose. But the…
Rick Wertz
April 8, 2015
Stay Focused Uncategorized

Stay Focused

In the movie City Slickers, Curly resolutely holds up one finger and answers, “One thing” when Mitch asks him about the secret to life. “What’s the ‘one thing’?” he pleas. Curly says, “You have to figure that out.” In “The Power of Habit”, Charles Duhigg documents…
Rick Wertz
April 1, 2015
Stay Tuned In Uncategorized

Stay Tuned In

In his study, Raising Kingdom Kids, Pastor Tony Evans starts with an example of how on a trip to Disney World they lost their youngest son. The boy had gotten distracted by a particular attraction, by all the bright colors and entertainment. Likewise, the parents had…
Rick Wertz
March 25, 2015
Be Conscious Uncategorized

Be Conscious

It was an unusual morning. Dad was going into work a bit later than normal and was eating breakfast as the kids were heading out the door to school. He took exception to what his daughter was wearing and said, “Young lady, you are not…
Rick Wertz
March 18, 2015
Stay Relative Uncategorized

Stay Relative

The world is saying that truth is relative. Dad’s primary role is to keep Truth relative. In his book, “Case for Christ” Lee Strobel’s investigation into the facts surrounding Christ provides answers to key questions around the validity of the Bible as he shares information…
Rick Wertz
March 11, 2015
Have Clarity Uncategorized

Have Clarity

What was up with the buzz around that blue and black dress last week? My bride saw it as white and gold! We did not get into an argument or anything but she clearly thought I was nuts. Of course I said, “Yes dear” (Marriage 101). My…
Rick Wertz
March 4, 2015
Stay In Family Uncategorized

Stay In Family

I received a call this week requesting participation in a survey. The first question was, “What do you think is the number one problem facing Houston today?” I responded, “In Houston and beyond it is the destruction of family, homes where the biological mom and…
Rick Wertz
February 25, 2015
Stay In Truth Uncategorized

Stay In Truth

Did he lie? Or was he just embellishing the truth a bit? Yes! The network has given itself six months by way of suspension without pay to ascertain whether their news anchor can reestablish a level of credibility that is evidently a plus for those…
Rick Wertz
February 18, 2015
Make the Play Uncategorized

Make the Play

One was prepared for the moment. One was not. One player was ready to make the play. The other was not. While it was all somewhat lost in the hullaballoo around what call was made at the 1-yard line in the waning seconds of Super…
Rick Wertz
February 11, 2015
Make the Right Call Uncategorized

Make the Right Call

  “What a call!” was the call made by virtually every sportscaster, sportswriter and armchair quarterback over the last several days, with a tone of derision pointed toward the coach and offensive coordinator of the Seattle Seahawks. We in Houston know that Bum Phillips sure…
Rick Wertz
February 3, 2015
Be Ready II Uncategorized

Be Ready II

As he was listening to his son, the dad was reflecting on the stacks of magazines that were readily accessible in his home growing up. He hadsuffered an addiction to pornography that lasted into his 30’s and he was determined not to expose his son…
Rick Wertz
January 28, 2015
Be Ready Uncategorized

Be Ready

As he shared his story with a group of dads there were tears running down his face. His daughter had turned sixteen and the transition from being his “little girl” to becoming a beautiful young lady was hard on him. The clothes, boys and the…
Rick Wertz
January 21, 2015
Mind the Temple Uncategorized

Mind the Temple

A friend recently lamented his kids growing up without knowing their grandpa. His father had passed when the kids were very young. He said, “If my dad would have minded the temple better, he may have been able to share family stories directly with his…
Rick Wertz
January 14, 2015
Investing Well Uncategorized

Investing Well

I talked with a dad the other day that has grown kids. He was proudest when he told me that they know the Lord and they know him. In addition, they have completed their formal education, are gainfully employed and have no debt. Now there…
Rick Wertz
January 7, 2015
Resolve to Be … Uncategorized

Resolve to Be …

Be a faithful father, resolve to be more engaged in raising a godly generation across 2015. Tips for this NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION: Prioritize your physical presence in the home and with family. ‘In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was…
Rick Wertz
December 29, 2014
Merry Christmas Uncategorized

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas from our family to yours. Know therefore that the Lord your God is God, He is the faithful God, keeping His covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love Him and keep His commands. – Deuteronomy 7:9. Our Father is a…
Rick Wertz
December 22, 2014
Be CHRISTian Uncategorized

Be CHRISTian

Are you like me when someone wishes you “Happy Holidays”? I always respond with a “Merry Christmas!” I think I do it in a loving way. When a friend asked me why I needed to put such emphasis on that issue I found myself being a little…
Rick Wertz
December 17, 2014
Be Respectful Uncategorized

Be Respectful

A father-figure in my life served part-time as a deputy sheriff for the county. In that capacity, he would provide added security in the local retail stores leading up to Christmas. One time while on duty, a mom trying to deal with her son’s tantrum…
Rick Wertz
December 10, 2014