When a dad is consistent in his children’s lives, there are powerful payoffs: Boys are usually well-adjusted, intellectually oriented and have stable relationships; Girls usually show more self-assurance and vitality, less anxiety and do not conform to stereotypes.
Tips to work on consistency in your:
- Schedule - be home from work at a regular time; communicate when work hits an irregular cycle; put key events on your calendar and be there as often as possible; eat dinner together as a family at least five times a week.
- Moods - leave work at work; engage emotionally by listening well in the home; identify specific triggers for frustration and keep anger in check.
- Relationships – nurture a personal and passionate relationship with Jesus the Christ through time in prayer, scripture, worship and study of His word; reflect that relationship in marriage, family and beyond; establish “battle buddies” that will encourage you on this road to greater consistency.
As you work to be more consistent in your schedule, moods and relationships, you will be a hero in your children’s eyes.
Share a comment on how you are, or can be consistent in your children's lives.
